I agree you do have to compromise its only fair......... I would let her feed only three days a week instead of five.
Tellin ya bud get her right or get out of the sport now while you have minimal invested. I promise I love my wife to death but if she suddenly became not alright with this lifestyle I would be finding her a new boyfriend and dropping him off at the house on my way to the woods. Straight Jerry Springer Chit here bro.
Death before dishonor!!!!!!! Strip me of my life and liberty but don't take my curdogs!!!