Tiny if women would use fewer words maybe our ears could keep up. The problem is that women don't complain about the real problem. They complain about everything else and we have to guess why. Now I will admit I tell my wife all this too. Guys are not perfect but when a guy gets mad he tells you why and there is no guessing. Even if nobody changes anything he will get over it but women don't. There are many differences between women and men. They make us like each other and hate each other. Women just get to tell men how screwed up they are any time a woman feels like it. If a man say anything other than how perfect a woman is then it is all out war.
Now now now, never said Terry couldn't vent. I'm all for venting to friends, lord knows I do plenty of it. All I'm saying is that most of the time women want to know you care. Even if you don't, then just act like you do. For instance, if she wants to paint the dang living room purple ten instead of saying "I don't care" try saying "that might be cool, I would have to see it to know for sure, but I think it would also look cool in....." and so forth. I might be a weird woman but Maurice and I have never had a full out screaming match, and prolly never will. If I'm mad then I'll tell him why, however, if my feelings get hurt then I might get a little witchy, simply because I don't wanna talk until I get calmed down because I don't want it to lead to a screaming match.
All my point was sometimes women feel like it don't matter what they are trying to say. To a woman, if you don't care if the living room is neon yellow, then it feels like you don't care about her likes/dislikes, wants/wishes, or her. Not saying its right, just that it's how it is.
