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woman are very simple creatures. If shes otherwise a good woman, I wouldn't let her go over this. I had a similar sitiation a few years back. I will give you this advice. the main job of a husband Biblicaly is to sanctify his wife. That means to make holy.
5:25 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;
26 That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word,
27 That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish. If you are a believer in christ, think of how he deals with his children. always firm in his stance,never gives in when we are wrong( firm not angry),always looking out for our good, never selfish, supply's protection and provides for us emotionally and physically. He corrects us but with a purpose, never out of anger or desire to dominate. to put it simply I don't think you have to give in when your mate is clearly wrong but I would carefully examine the way you act towards her and if theirs a sore spot on your conscious, I would quickly change that behavior. A woman can change a man (maybe)! and a man can change his wife but only by steady firm wise steering of her over time. She has to know you love her above all else(thats the most important)! unfortunately for most women that means spending lots of time doing honey does and such. A woman loves for a man to work for her on her little projects and do little sweet chores and other things I don't care about it. If shes a good woman other wise I will practically garuntee you this is whats bothering her not the hunting.Little girls grow up dreaming of a man thats their very own and will do things for them no one else will. Example:My wife always wants me to build her furniture. If I don't do it she will after a period of time become disgruntled. I don 't have to do every project just enough to let her know I'm willing to give her apiece of myself and when I am fair with her with my time. I'm not her slave I get to hunt and she gets to be proud of her man. You will get nowhere with your wife if she starts losing respect for you.once it's gone shes gone more than likley. Most marriages that end in divorce could be saved If the folks involved would take a long hard look at themselves and be painfully honest with them self about what they really are. It hurts but will sure help in the long run. Long answer but I hope it helps.I guarantee you hunting isn't the problem you got underlying issues that need dealt with.
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