Abuse

I am with a woman who has 3 kids. 2 girls ages 15 and 13 and a boy aka my road dog Bailey aka "beetle" as I call him. Lol...I have been with this woman for 6 years. I'm 27 and sshe's 38. The kids all know and love there daddy and I'm glad of it and would never try to take his place. . We don't see eye to eye on alot of things but all in all he's an okay guy. I love all 3 of these kids as they were my own. (I don't have children) I am a firm believer in an @$$ whooping and some strong verbal correction. Now I will say this . There is a difference between abuse and getting that hind end tore up. All these years I have only gave one of the kids a "whooping" . I caught her smoking with some older boys and they all heard what I though and wwhat would happen if they didn't ease on down the road. That was going to be the end of it until the m f-er you aain't my daddy and you don't tell me what I can and can't do came from that 14 year Olds mouth. She got a good one. I made her call her dad and tell him about it. He said you'll be lucky if it don't happen again when you get home. Now. As far as abusing the kids and abusing the women. That won't fly around here. No way no how. And I would never bad talk there dad to them. The only thing close to that I've ever done is when they threaten to call him when we don't agree, I say call him. Your in my house. Your daddy and me don'tdo things the same. And if yo want to call the law then call them as well. NNothing I do is illegal. Anyway. Child abuse and woman beating don't fly in my book. Simple as that. Big difference between abuse and correction though. And I honestly hope that your just asking a question and not involved in that type of situation. If you are then like someone else said get yourself and your childrenaway from it . Sorry I rambled on in your post. I get a little type happy. Good luck to you !